For the longest time, Christmas stressed me out. Then last year came, and Mr. Money had just lost his job, and we were on no-spending mode so we really didn’t do too much as far as gifts went. This year we’re dealing with a huge pay cut, so we’re being very careful with how we spend the money we have budgeted for Christmas. I’ve also decided that instead of being stressed out about buying gifts for everyone is not something I’m going to do this year.
Mr. Money and I don’t typically buy each other extravagant birthday, anniversary, or Christmas presents. A lot of the time we don’t really need anything so to go out and buy something just because feels silly to me. I try to keep our clutter to a minimum, so buying some tchotchke does not bring a smile to my face. Last year Mr. Money bought me one present: a Home Alone DVD, and that meant more to me than if he had bought me a diamond ring. I love that movie, and it was such a thoughtful gift!
Penny is going to be almost two (what!!) at Christmas time so she still doesn’t really fully grasp the idea of presents. I’m sure she’s going to enjoy opening them, but whether she has 3 presents or 30 I think she’ll be happy. For that reason, I’ve decided I’d like to get her one big present (probably a nice doll if I can decide which one) and then some accessories. I’m going to make some cloth diapers for her doll, a baby carrier she can wear her baby in, and I’ll knit her some mittens too. I know she’ll be happy with all that, and I won’t have a million plastic toys taking over my house. I’ve already done the great toy purge in anticipation of some new ones making their way into our house.
As far as other presents go, I’m planning on knitting some items for people, making some wool dryer balls and figuring out some other things that Penny and I can make. I always feel like I am the worst gift-giver so I’m trying to put a lot of thought into things we can make that will be nice and others can enjoy. Sometimes I feel like people don’t appreciate hand made items and think it’s a crappy gift. I’ve got to stop thinking that way- I know that when I receive a hand made bar of soap or hand knit item I cherish it because I know the work involved in it. Someone invested their time into making something for me!
I hate being stressed out, and Christmas surely can do that to people. This year I hope to avoid most of it by getting everything done early so I’ve got time to enjoy the season. I can’t believe there is a little more than a month left until Christmas. I know if we buckle down we’ll be able to get everything in order and then enjoy the rest of the season.
How do you avoid stress at the holidays?